[Moya] Recent thoughts on fisting
May. 2nd, 2013 05:51 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
moominmuppetFrom a conversation with a potential new lover, figured I'd move it over here since I know several folks would be interested. I'd like to emphasize, though, this is just what works for _me_. For truly useful educational material, nothing else I've seen beats A Hand in the Bush
Fisting is so... unpredictable. It really requires ultimate obedience to my body's limitations that particular day, and that can vary frustratingly.
While I can take an average woman's hand close to 100% of the time, I'd guess it's closer to 80% with most guys. Less often with particularly large/broad hands, of course.
On the practical side, both lube and gloves make things easier. At that intensity one little hangnail is pretty spectacularly painful.
But in terms of getting there, I usually do so faster than most, and I've gotten a pretty good sense of how I need my partner to move or adjust to make things work.
It's rarely where I start with things; a good hard fucking with a nice big toy will really get me in the mood for fisting.
(if live cock is involved I generally like that best right after being fisted; feels absolutely incredible)
So usually by the time I'm up for fisting I've had a few (or more than a few) orgasms, and I'm really craving feeling filled in the kind of way only fisting accomplishes.
And it starts as a fingerfucking thing, of course. three, four, five... not like that's not fun all on its own, and I'm usually cumming pretty regularly throughout. I usually use a vibe on my clit at the same time, too.
The tricky point is the spot that seems just impossible, where knuckles meet pubic bone. It's a gentle, gentle navigation, and it's definitely best if I'm fucking myself onto the hand rather than them fucking into me.
The most I really want my partner doing at that point is gently rotating their hand side to side to help find just the right angle. And adding more lube as necessary. Lube and fisting are chocolate and peanut butter.
And then things suddenly fit, and knuckles are past my pubic bone, and their hand curls inside me.
And it's amazing.
Mindblowing. Beautiful.
And it feels so damn good.
Sometimes, i just need things to be still for a moment at that point. Let my body adjust around them. Other times I'm all up for more right off the bat.
When it's taking me some time to adjust, I'll have my partner just gently twist their hand a little. Doesn't take much movement to feel really intense, especially if one of their joints is against my g-spot.
E has a fun trick she does where she'll just barely start to open her fist and then close it again. Holy fuck, fun.
For some folks, fisting is all about that kind of slow-and-gentle movement.
The rest of what I like is not representative of those folks.
Once I adjust, or right away if I'm wound up enough (especially with K's hand, which is relatively small), I pretty much fuck the hell out of myself on their hand. Hard. Aggressive. Pretty much cumming a straight blue streak by that point.
If I cum hard enough, I may physically shoot their hand out of me (although that makes me sad)
When I've had as much as I can handle, we'll just pause for a bit with them still inside me. Sometimes I discover it really is my limit, sometimes it turns out I just needed a breather and I start wiggling around on them again.
When it is really, definitely all I can take, I don't want them to pull out immediately, but give me a few minutes to settle a bit. And I definitely don't want them to pull out fast, or without my help. Ow. I push them back out as much as they pull at all.
Fisting is so... unpredictable. It really requires ultimate obedience to my body's limitations that particular day, and that can vary frustratingly.
While I can take an average woman's hand close to 100% of the time, I'd guess it's closer to 80% with most guys. Less often with particularly large/broad hands, of course.
On the practical side, both lube and gloves make things easier. At that intensity one little hangnail is pretty spectacularly painful.
But in terms of getting there, I usually do so faster than most, and I've gotten a pretty good sense of how I need my partner to move or adjust to make things work.
It's rarely where I start with things; a good hard fucking with a nice big toy will really get me in the mood for fisting.
(if live cock is involved I generally like that best right after being fisted; feels absolutely incredible)
So usually by the time I'm up for fisting I've had a few (or more than a few) orgasms, and I'm really craving feeling filled in the kind of way only fisting accomplishes.
And it starts as a fingerfucking thing, of course. three, four, five... not like that's not fun all on its own, and I'm usually cumming pretty regularly throughout. I usually use a vibe on my clit at the same time, too.
The tricky point is the spot that seems just impossible, where knuckles meet pubic bone. It's a gentle, gentle navigation, and it's definitely best if I'm fucking myself onto the hand rather than them fucking into me.
The most I really want my partner doing at that point is gently rotating their hand side to side to help find just the right angle. And adding more lube as necessary. Lube and fisting are chocolate and peanut butter.
And then things suddenly fit, and knuckles are past my pubic bone, and their hand curls inside me.
And it's amazing.
Mindblowing. Beautiful.
And it feels so damn good.
Sometimes, i just need things to be still for a moment at that point. Let my body adjust around them. Other times I'm all up for more right off the bat.
When it's taking me some time to adjust, I'll have my partner just gently twist their hand a little. Doesn't take much movement to feel really intense, especially if one of their joints is against my g-spot.
E has a fun trick she does where she'll just barely start to open her fist and then close it again. Holy fuck, fun.
For some folks, fisting is all about that kind of slow-and-gentle movement.
The rest of what I like is not representative of those folks.
Once I adjust, or right away if I'm wound up enough (especially with K's hand, which is relatively small), I pretty much fuck the hell out of myself on their hand. Hard. Aggressive. Pretty much cumming a straight blue streak by that point.
If I cum hard enough, I may physically shoot their hand out of me (although that makes me sad)
When I've had as much as I can handle, we'll just pause for a bit with them still inside me. Sometimes I discover it really is my limit, sometimes it turns out I just needed a breather and I start wiggling around on them again.
When it is really, definitely all I can take, I don't want them to pull out immediately, but give me a few minutes to settle a bit. And I definitely don't want them to pull out fast, or without my help. Ow. I push them back out as much as they pull at all.
